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Pre-production
Showrunner & AD meetings
Agree on scope of work (production should provide a list of intimate scenes)
Access production bible
Set meetings with director and actors
Determine if IC support is needed for casting calls and notices for leads and BG
Script analysis & breakdown
Assess intimacy level and risk level of each scene
Flag modesty garment and barrier needs
Flag which departments need to be coordinated with (costumes, props, PD)
Determine closed set plans
Dramaturgy, if needed, to ensure cultural, social, and human portrayals are considered, intentional, and reflected authentically
Director meeting
Learn director's wishlist and storytelling goals
Get a detailed visual and tonal breakdown of each scene
Confirm requested intimacy and nudity levels
Actor meetings
Relay director's wishlist and goals
Determine actor's consent relative to scene expectations
Get general boundaries and preferences for working on intimate scenes
Flag any questions or concerns for follow-up
Review each intimate scene in detail
Background actors & stand-ins
If possible, contact all BG to let them know they'll be in an intimate scene
Determine if they'll need a full meeting ahead of filming
Riders
Review contracts and determine if a rider is needed
Draft rider language based on scene expectations and actor's boundaries
Lawyers finalize language
Production sends riders to reps — I'm on call and usually CC'd on all correspondence
Ensure riders are sent 48 hours before a scene requiring one and confirm they are signed on time
Note: rider correspondence can be extremely time-consuming, especially on A+ level productions.
Department collaboration
Producer/Director — follow up on any actor concerns or flags that need to be addressed
Costumes — modesty garments, underwear, and coverage needs; ensure everything is ordered on time
Props — anything actors handle in an intimate scene
Makeup/Prosthetics — anything the actor or director needs shown or covered
Production Design — from basics like sheets to safety issues for unusual surfaces or hard ground
Crew needs — particularly if the scene involves assault or potentially traumatizing material
Rehearsals
If pre-shoot rehearsals are available, discuss blocking, scene goals, boundaries, and choreography
Set Days
Director & actor check-ins
Day-of check-in to review any updates that couldn't be addressed prior to the shoot
Review any script changes
Check in with stand-ins and BG
Department check-ins
Connect and confirm plans with all departments from pre-production
Closed set protocols
Confirm all protocols are in place and each department knows what is expected
Confirm technical requirements for DIT and camera departments are being followed
Confirm actors know who will be allowed on a closed set and obtain their consent
Hold safety meeting
Address crew concerns and determine accommodations, particularly for assault or traumatic scenes
Blocking & rehearsal
Be present for all blocking and rehearsal
Finalize choreography
Finalize all costumes, garments, props, and any other items needed for the work
Ensure sanitary conditions for actors, including hygiene items like mouthwash
Filming
Be at monitor to advise director on movement adjustments or choreography refinements
Flag anything that may trip a rider
Work with Script Supervisor to note anything relevant for the editors
Have kit handy for any adjustments needed during takes — typically tape for slippage or clean barriers
Make in-the-moment adjustments to achieve the director's storytelling goals
Offer de-roling or scene closure practices to actors and crew, if requested
Post Production
DIT & Script Supervisor
Confirm footage has been properly marked and restricted
Set report
Send a detailed set report to production
Intimacy Kit
Tapes
K-Tape
Clear skin-friendly tape
Silicone tape
Waterproof tape
Double-sided grooming tape
Barriers & Coverage
Silicone nipple covers
Fabric nipple covers
Foam barriers
Silicone barriers
Felt barriers
Feminine pads
Invisible line
Clear straps
Shibue/hibou
Tuck kits
Modesty pouches
Soft cups
Camping pillow
Yoga ball
Hygiene & Skin Care
Mints
Mouthwash
Gum
Baby wipes
Baby oil (tape removal)
Adhesive remover
Alcohol wipes
Available at Additional Cost
Bras
Padded pouches
Padded underwear
Dance belts
Padded strapless thongs
Shorts